phew...
my friend doesnt go well with her boy friend lately.. she seek for help expecting me to give her some opinions.. i was like, so stress.. and i was speechless.. i did not even know what to advice her..this is because what she did was totally the same thing tat i've done to him.. i know her feeling so well.. Once we've made the decision to just break up, we will get all the negative consequences.. eg, people will
judge you as the bad ones, who dumps the person that u like.. actually, it wasnt our fault although it looked like we're the one who made up all the problems.. i've affected my studies, neglected my families and ignored about my future life.. i couldn't concentrate on my studies when i was with him, i lied to my parents which i felt so damn bad, and last..I was once living a true fairy tale.. However, never did i realised controversy came while we were fantasized about our future.. i felt so wrong day after day as i know well that this kind of dream will not be realised.. but i couldnt resist him.. he's way too nice which i couldn't afford to hurt him.. at last, i made up my mind for my own sake.. i told him my problem and all the reasons.. but the more i tell, the more difficult for him to get me.. i guess he couldnt even understand what i actually want.. worst was that, he misunderstood me.. :( hmm... we never talk to each other after this.. how sad...
anyway, i told my friend to just leave it to God. If he is not the person that we were expecting, just forget about it.. however, my last advice was.. don't end up the relationship.. it hurts when we meet again.....
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